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The Rule of Three Lies

When considering a relationship of any kind, practice the Rule of Threes regarding the claims and promises a person makes, and the responsibilities he or she has.
One lie usually means one broken promise or a single neglected responsibiltiy or may be a misunderstanding instead. Two lies may involve a serious mistake.
But three lies says you’re dealing with a liar, and deceit is the lynchpin of conscienceless behaviour.

Cut your losses and get out as soon as you can. Leaving, though it may be hard, will be easier now than later, and less costly. Do not give your money, your work, your secrets or your affection to a three-timer.