10 Signs – how to know when a man doesn’t love you anymore

14 Sep

It’s been a while since I have written a relationship article..so here goes…B

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If you have not been feeling loved lately, and your man’s behaviour has changed towards you lately, making you think that may be he does not love you anymore. If you are losing sleep over how your man is behaving then you need to read the ten signs below that show that he is no longer in love with you:

1. He has stopped calling you the endearing names he once called you – sweetie, honey, darling, baby, boo, etc.

2. He complains when you try to be affectionate to him. If you are sitting on the coach and you try to massage his neck or back, he tells you to stop because he is uncomfortable, or just wants you to give him some elbow room.

3. He tells you mean things that hurt your feeling in the name of trying to tell you the truth. For example, he will tell you that you are overweight and that you should try to lose weight.

4. He flirts with other girls right in your presence, and when you complain he tells you to do something about it if you don’t like how he is behaving.

5. He no longer tells you about how his day went. He does not talk to you as much as he used to in the past.

6. He goes out with his friends on weekends and never bothers to invite you.

7. He suddenly starts calling you another woman’s name – probably the woman he is now involved with – and does not apologize to you.

8. He stays out late and does not bother to explain to you where he has gone and why his coming home late.

9. He gets very angry when you accuse him of having an affair. He gets very defensive and starts shouting at you.

10. He never seems to understand why you are complaining that his behaviour toward you has changed.

If your man is acting like he no longer loves you and you have noticed that his behaviour towards you has drastically changed, chances are that he may be falling out of love with you. And if that is the case, don’t try to get him to do what he does not want to do – like staying in a relationship with. If you have told him that you don’t like the way he is treating you and he does not appear to be interested in changing his ways, then your man probably wants to move on. If that is what he wants, let him move on so that you can make room for a man that will derive joy in fulfilling your heart’s romantic desires.


191 Responses to “10 Signs – how to know when a man doesn’t love you anymore”

  1. Missy 01/12/2013 at 6:07 am #


    I am in similar situation and i dont know what to do. When he meet me i told him that i am not ready for relationship because i just came out from one, and i was hurt, he wrote me latters and CDs, he was just wonderfull. Then i mada a mistake and since then for 7 months he cannot let it go, i never cheatec i was not so emotional, its been a rought time for me, and now, he doesnt call he is always busy, when he writes me messages they are so fact, and fact. Then their is cultural difference there i am bosnian he is american ( i am white, he is black) I told him so many times how i feel and that he is hurting me, he said that i deserve more for something that its really not my fault but he is blaming me for it,. I really need advice, and what to do. of course he doesnt write anything, and he deleted me from the facebook for something i asked me for.

  2. Eli 26/02/2014 at 7:12 pm #

    I’ve been with my fiancé for two 1/2 years now. We have a one year old n we live together. He is a military man (29). N I’m just a university student (27) and I must say I’m very confused. I feel as if he doesn’t loves me as much as he use to. We don’t date anymore. He works at his base comes home tells me hi. Still kisses me. N calls me babe. But he gets upset for everything. If I tell him my opinions he gets upset. He won’t talk to me. When I try to talk to him n tell him how I feel about his behavior he says I’m just crazy n dramatic. In May 2013 he deployed for 6 months. The day before his deployment he spent it with friends at their graduation, instead of spending time with us. At 4 in the morning we left to the airport as I dropped him off. And throughout the way he didn’t hold my hand at all (Note: this was my first deployment of his since being with him. His been in military for ten years) he never apologized. I let it go. Now that he is back I thought things were going to be beyond awesome since he missed me so much. He wanted marriage. So I said ok let’s get married. We got the package for the license. But as of today it’s still there. He set up an appointment to get marry but that day I decided not to go to school and he got upset. He didn’t talk to me and we didn’t get married. I don’t understand why. He didn’t marry me bcuz I didn’t go to school? Or? This past valentines day 2014 he didn’t even tell me happy valentines day. I wasn’t expecting any roses or gifts since he’s been acting weird in terms of always being in his little world. I gave him a present. And told him happy valentines day at night in bed. It was then when he told me happy V. And that he didn’t get me anything. I told him it’s ok I wasn’t expecting anything with how’s his been with me. He didn’t say anything. I’m confused. He tells me he loves me. But yet I don’t feel as if he does. My typical day is take care of our little girl go to class come home make food, clean study. He comes home eat dinner and that’s it. No time together bcuz he’s acting up. I don’t feel appreciated. Nor loved by him. Yesterday, he was texting me through out the day of how I was feeling since I have the cold. It was good. When he comes home. He told us hi and kissed us. After I came out of the room from getting something. And started fixing up dinner, he wasn’t happy anymore. Why? I don’t know. I asked him are u ok? Are u upset? He said no. When I served his food. He didn’t touch it. He ate his left overs from lunch. I told him. I served u food. He said I didn’t know that was for me. When it was placed on his fav part of the table. I don’t know what’s wrong. I try my best to make him happy. I give him sex whenever he is on the mood. I try to make him happy. But I feel like he’s not. As a matter of fact, he did told me that he’s not happy on Jan 2 2014 bcuz he misses his family and friends. He wanted to split. I cried so much that day that at night he hold me. And told me that he loves me. I told him ok we can split if that’s what he wants. He told me no , it’s not. That he loves me and wants to be with me. I’m hurt I don’t know what to think anymore. I love this man so much. But I understand him anymore with his moods. Makes me think he doesn’t love me.
    Any advice?

  3. jim richter 30/07/2014 at 8:14 pm #

    Is this for real?

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