Thanks for visiting my blog. I don’t like giving my contact information out just like this but feel free to leave me a comment. Thanks, Barbara.


20 Responses to “Contact”

  1. jan khan 06/06/2009 at 7:31 am #

    love u truely !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • justbarbara 06/06/2009 at 9:52 am #

      Thank you… it makes my day to know I made someone that happy…take care, Barbara

  2. Mirza 07/06/2009 at 11:51 am #

    I wanna say just one word


  3. Pankaj mani 15/07/2009 at 3:12 pm #

    Hi Barbara

    this good blog site. I like it

  4. justbarbara 22/07/2009 at 12:10 am #

    Glad you like it…hopefully it is of some use to you all out there 😎

  5. Gary 09/11/2009 at 3:15 pm #

    Barbara, thought it only polite to let you know who’s poking around your blog (seeing that you have Feedjit), shall be back to book sect. now & again, cool?

    • justbarbara 09/11/2009 at 4:52 pm #

      No problem at all Gary – glad you enjoy the blog 🙂 Take Care, Barbara.

  6. Karen Clayton 21/11/2009 at 4:08 pm #

    Hi Barbara,

    Hope you are well, I just found your blog for some reason and I like what you have on it. You are an interesting person and just wanted you to know that I met you through Denny, so when he became an asshole, I deleted everyone that was on Facebook through him as I did not want to have any more contact with him at all….nothing personal, you seem really cool.

    • justbarbara 22/11/2009 at 12:41 am #

      Thanks Karen – sorry you two fell out… I think you are cool too. If you ever want to talk bout this – feel free
      to contact me… am still on facebook or re-add me if you want… Take Care, Barbara.xx

  7. Nupur Tiwari 29/09/2011 at 9:50 am #

    i need your help..i really do…:( 😦 can u pleaseee help me outttttttttttt…………………

    • justbarbara 28/11/2011 at 1:35 am #

      sure let me know what the prob is..sorry to hear that.

  8. katty 06/06/2012 at 4:17 pm #

    barbara i badly need ur help whr r u why ur not replying to me

    • justbarbara 11/06/2012 at 11:15 am #

      sorry I wasn’t on here – how can I help?

      • katty 23/06/2012 at 2:52 pm #

        love u barbara ur the best advisor in the whole world

      • justbarbara 25/06/2012 at 12:50 pm #

        Aww thank you Katty – you are v welcome!! as long as you are happy that is all that matters!! 🙂

  9. Nono Ngcobo 26/06/2012 at 1:16 pm #

    hi Barbara, I left a query needing an advise of some sort and I see my comment is said to be awaiting moderation….what does that mean?

  10. amanda 24/07/2012 at 2:32 am #

    I could really use some help here as well. I am pregnant and due sept 5, my boyfriend, myself, my three year old , our dog and my boyfriends son ( on weekends, Holiday breaks and half summer) all live in a one bedroom tiney appartment. I am a barmaid and was “let go” @ 5 months pregnant. He cant get a normal job for reasons i wont disclose , and I cant get assistance (@ least no leagally) becouse i cant use his social to put him as a resident in our home. ITS VERY COMPLICATED. I know i can make it in my home town , I have friends there who are buisness owners and willing to let me work pregnant, i have my family and friends for support. He has a job but hasnt done anything that leads me to believe he will help with it , he wont even touch my stomach to feel it move or sleep in the same bed as me, or go anywhere besides wallmart6 with me. Ive been told he has a fear of public places and he doesent go out or have anyfriends so i kinda believe it. Idk if he loves me if its even worth staying for. when i leave him and come back its great ! and he is wonderful with my daughter whi loves him and his son. I feel alone and scared and i feel like im letting my unborn chuld down by bringing him into this life when i know i can make a better one for us on my own , but at the same time i value family staying together and if i go home my unborn will probibly never see hs dad cuz its 3 hours away and neither of us have a car. Im so confused and lost and alone .. im ok for a week or so and when it all hits mer i feel like i am drownding and no one knows its hapening. I have nightmares all the time and sometimes can barly hold myself together. someone plz help me

    • justbarbara 13/08/2012 at 11:45 am #

      Dear Amanda

      You are not alone okay. You are bringing a beautiful little angel into the world and as soon as you see this baby you will be so so happy you will forget these hard times. REALLY you will. Focus on what is good here. I know losing your job at 5 months pregnant sucks. But you can make it through. Do not feel guilt – you were not to know this would happen to you. I had my first baby on 5 Sept but that went badly for me sadly but I do know from having two wonderful kids later how they are worth it. You never have enough money anyway – even if you had saved up before they came along!! So no more guilty feelings!! You say you know you can make it then keep with that sentiment. Your baby needs you to be strong for both of you. Don’t mind the bf if he won’t touch your stomach and share the excitement. He is a man and its hard for them to know what you are really feeling inside there!! Cherish these moments without him if necessary and don’t let him lack of empathy bother you!! he is possibly terrified of not having enough money to provide for you and the child hence withdrawing himself from you guys for a while – do not see this as rejection – he is just scared I reckon. I know the whole nightmare thing and it could be from your pregnancy hormones on override….they really can give you odd dreams!!! I hope you get this reply. I am here for you always if you need me and if you want you can email me at – I read that WAY more than my blog…so I am sorry for the late responses to everyone….you take care and remember be happy. We make our own happiness. Bf are just a bonus sometimes and sometimes we can better off without too. I wish you all the luck….its going to be wonderful when you hold that gorgeous little baby…just think of that 🙂 and all the pain you have will go away!!!

  11. mpho 05/01/2013 at 3:15 pm #

    hi barbara.
    I have a man and is been 10 years togethar.we hav 5yr child together.i thnk he lose interest in me.coz back de.we like to spend tym alone. playing,doing evrything 2geda like cooking,loundry,going out alone,but ryt now we dont do anything,is jst sex.nd he command me to do everything for her,run her a bath nd clean after him.irony,loudry,cook nd serve her anytym wen he is back coz most of his tym. he come home late.i have to wake up nd serve her ada wise he get angry.he gave me compliment that am gain,nd he does’nt tel me im beutiful like b4.but he say he want us to get I being selfish or what.coz somtym I feel so.pls help.

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